Bachelor Phobia in Peshawar
Karim Khan , Peshawar: Jul 11 2008
Made Popular Jul 11 2008

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The stereotyped view of a bachelor as a potential threat to families in the neighborhood continues to grow as Peshawar city is increasingly being stressed under the torrents of students and workforce coming to the city from many parts of the province. House owners in all residential areas are averse to bachelors (needless to remind that it refers to unmarried males, mostly young) and would not let their houses to males who are not accompanied by a family (i.e. female members of the family). This attitude is costing these young students, and other bachelors, a lot of trouble.

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In Peshawar, bachelors are mainly concentrated in the areas proximal to the University of Peshawar, especially in Shaheen Town where a number of bachelor hostels serve to accommodate them. Most of these hostels are usually lacking in facilities, proper sanitation, and orderliness of management. Rooms are stuffed with at least three persons per room; some rooms having five or even more inhabitants. But this does not solve the problem of social hostility toward bachelorhood. Since last year (2007), locals have started to set police crackdowns on bachelor hostels, evacuating the hostels forcibly. The common pretext for such an evacuation is that of sexual harassment by one or more of the hostel dwellers.

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In some areas of the city, like the Canal Town (close to the University of Peshawar), people may show willingness to let their houses to bachelors, though demanding a high amount in advance. To get a house, bachelors are now entering as groups of 4 to 8 (or more) persons who jointly rent a house for an advanced amount of 50, 000 rupees (in some cases even more). The rent of bachelor hostels is also increasing steadily from an average of 1300 rupees per head in 2006 to 1700 rupees per head currently. Some hostels have also imposed the rule that their residents necessarily join hostel mess and pay the dues for food provided at the hostel. This has added to the burden of bachelors staying in these hostels, while also limiting their freedom of choice.

Some house owners, particularly in Hayatabad, have now secretly started letting their houses to be used as ‘mini bachelor hostels’ as it brings greater profit than letting these to families. To secure the position of the dwellers, hostel regulations require a quiet and asocial life style, so as not to catch the attention of the neighborhood. Sending even minor ripples in the calm of ‘social receptors’ can mean a life on the streets of the city. This generalized anxiety about bachelors in the neighborhood is becoming a major issue for students and workers who can’t afford to bring their families to Peshawar, or choose not to do so.

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John betterconstructed.co..
Show Low, United States
And young American’s think they have it tough when they leave high school or college!

Any idea what can be done to help? Perhaps building cabins outside of the city? I would love to fly in and show these people how to quickly build very inexpensive and decent American style cabins. 1-2 bedroom houses...

No, NOT because I want to hang out with a bunch of bachelors! But to help out.
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If they are made to live in cabins or even houses outside the city, it would amount to subjecting them to greater humiliation. The root problem is not their housing but getting them social respect and acceptence as harmless individuals. Not having a mate does not mean that bachelors are immoral or offendors. In fact, the number of problems reported for married people far exceed those reported for bachelors. Perhaps media can do something to abate this prejudice.
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:-| but why?? as in, just because they are single and well, males? poor guys, i wonder how they live, cramped and uncomfortable, im sure.

i dont think the situation is as bad in India, but people normally dont prefer renting their houses to anyone who is single, be it a girl or a guy. I fail to understand the logic behind this though.
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Well, you can’t find a valid, justifiable reason behind it. Why? Because there is no such reason. HOwever, you may think of it as a stereotype that may be explained by appeal to common practice. Imaginary threats about ’what can these guys do?’ are allowed to loom in one’s minds and shared with others. This gives brith to the bachelor (or any other) phobia. Phobias are irrational fears, you see. We are living in a sick place.
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May
Beirut, Lebanon
Single women are also not welcomed in many places if the landlord is not particularly the womanizer type. In France there was a big housing scandal where landlords demanded sex in exchange of accommodating young students and the students had no choice but to oblige.
(Global Perspectives)
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Neha Mahajan nehamahajan.instablo..
New Jersey, United States
Karim, this happens in India as well. I can talk about areas nearing Dlehi university, where not only people differentiate on the basis of sexes but also on the basis of what part of India one belongs to.
Young girls and boys from North East, have to face a lot off trouble at the hands of uncles and aunties who end up asking high amount as rent and security deposit.Same goes for our friends from Bihar. Well there were cases of misconduct from certain groups, but evrybody is like that.
The quality of accomodation, you bet only a handful can get what in real words are called clean andd hygenic.
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Yash
Gwalior, India
It's the same in India. I experienced this when I joined college in Delhi and was looking for an accommodation. Every decent looking residential houses turned me out because I was a bachelor. This doesn't extend to just students. You workers who are bachelors face the same problem. This results in many ghettos where you would find single students or young executives staying in clusters.
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